How to Make a Girl Happy =)

So you've got the girl of your dreams. How do you keep her? This is a guide for all those hopelessly lost men..

-Admit when you're wrong and don't be too stubborn . If you really messed up, you might want to plan a special date to apologize. When you're wrong, don't act like it was her fault. Don't just apologize, though - back it up with actions. And Always give her a cooling period if she's really mad, then offer to work it out. Remember, communication and compromise works, not talking it out doesn't.
-Go out of your way to spend time with her but give her some space too. Try to clear enough time for a romantic dinner or, more casually, a movie. If it's just not possible, at least make the effort to talk to her, but don't overdo it.
-Don't nag. Don't seem too needy; she'll find it annoying. Don't act like she should be grateful for your company, either.
-Show that you're genuinely glad to see her. Be glad to see her and show that you are not faking or exaggerating it. If your usual first reaction isn't a smile, there may be something wrong with the relationship. If you're just having a bad day, put it aside and grin. A hug can't hurt once in a while either, but don't crowd her or struggle to build up a budding relationship with lots of affection.
-Never cut her off or act uninterested in what she has to say. That's not to say don't interrupt at all - sometimes what you have to say can't wait. But if this happens, return to the subject she was on. If she seems a little hurt, apologize (not profusely. A simple 'sorry' will do). Don't just change the subject to something else.
-Remember that no means no. Don't pressure her for sex if she's not ready! Always test the waters first, with both words and actions. As your relationship progresses, you can start to get more physical, but take it very slowly. If she seems hesitant, back off - even if she doesn't say anything. She'll open up in time. (If she's an abuse survivor or something along those lines, that's a different situation entirely. Get her to talk to someone if she's not already.)
-Laugh at her jokes. If they're not funny and you're not good at faking, don't try - a fake laugh is much worse than none at all. But try to make an effort. At least smile; everyone likes to think that they're funny.
-Do not show romantic interest in her friends. Not even a single one of them.
-Always tell the truth. No matter how much it hurts. Cause in the end, the truth is all that matters and if you lie and she finds out, you'll get screwed a lot more than if you told the truth and it hurts. Why would you lie anyways? Just make the truth as nice as possible without twisting it.
- Always remember her birthday! You don't have to do anything huge in a new or fairly new relationship, but flowers are nice - even if she doesn't particularly like flowers. A card is always cool too. Gifts are good (look for 'How to get her the perfect gift').
- If for any reason she doesn't like the gift you have to offer, don't react irrationally. Admit you should have gotten a better one if nothing else works. Sometimes a simple "sorry" will work if you don't offer any other options to her present.

funny pics..

captain vijaykanth( the chipmunk version)

enna kodumei saravanan sir ithu..

tiger: mavanne ni errenggene!!!!

frog: ethe panallum.. plan panni pananum.. ohkay..

How to Make Yourself Happy

Smile- The act of smiling tends to make you feel better. Sometimes, inappropriate smiles are so ridiculous they make you laugh. Think of smiling while saying, "Oh dear, you broke your leg," and you'll get the impact.
Let Go of Everything Outside of This Moment- Right now you are sitting and looking at a computer screen. Whatever is going on, before this minute, during this minute or will happen in the next minute, let it go. Just be here now and smile.
Reflect-Think of breathing. Think of meals you've eaten. Think of being on a computer. How many people are now gasping for breath, starving to death, or will never have a computer. You're not doing bad, are you?
Recognize- Things could not have turned out any differently than they did. Regrets are used toilet paper. Flush them. What ifs and could ifs are pointless philosophical exercises.
Take Pleasure -The smallest thing, a flower, a cup of coffee, music, a pet, anything around you right now which is "okay". It doesn't have to be great, it just has to be okay. Okay is good enough.
Humor- No matter what it is, explain it to yourself in a funny way. Make a joke out of it. Some of the funniest jokes are the way someone sees adversity. Think of the worst thing that could happen, and imagine saying; "Splendid."
Control- You are going to be happy no matter what happens, what anyone says or does, you are in charge of you, and you are going to be happy.

and finally .. a tip from mr happy.. eat lotsa chocolate =) its scientificly proven =)

dasavatharam.. =)

dasavatharam.. the baby version..

haha.. i wonder what will kamal say if

he sees this... haha =)

how to make someone smile =)

-Give a heartfelt "thank you" to someone who deserves it. Whether it's a parent, teacher or friend, they may feel taken for granted if they do so much for you without any recognition. Offering a hug, card or even just saying the words will make them feel appreciated.
-Spend time together. Carving time out of your schedule to give your friends or kids some undivided attention will make them feel special, especially if you're usually busy with school, work or jobs around the house.
-Remember the little things. Let your girlfriend know that you're thinking of her with a quick email or tell a co-worker they're doing an awesome job by buying their morning coffee. Send friends cards to celebrate birthdays, anniversaries and the anniversary of the day you first met—they'll be thrilled that you remembered.
-Listen intently and ask open-ended questions when someone's talking about their interests, goals or other passions. It's a joy when a person is truly supportive of you and fascinated by your interests.
-uphold your end of the bargain, whether it's doing your chores without your mom telling you to, completing your part of a project when working as a group or remembering to pick something up on the way home from work. You'll make people happy if you're dependable and make their lives less stressful.

How to Make Someone Happy =)

Are you feeling good and want to make someone else feel good too? Do you have a friend who is feeling sad? Here are a few ways to make someone happy!

-Smile at them. Don't have a forced smile, but a soft caring smile. You can even practice in the mirror.
-Tell them a funny joke. Inside jokes work really well, especially if it is something only between the two of you.
-Find something funny online and send it around in an email, such as funny cat clips.
-Compliment them sincerely. Tell them how you love their shirt or how their hair looks.
-Invite them to do something fun with you that you will both enjoy. Go bowling, swimming, or something else fun and active.
-Pick a dandelion or blade of grass and give it to them. Say things such as, “I got this especially for you!” or "I picked this weed just for you!" It is different and might make them laugh at your sillyness, make them smile at your sweet nature.
-Listen to them. Try to understand their thoughts and be in their shoes. This shows you care and love them, whether they may appreciate it or not. Be there. They will come to realize what a friend you've been.

-Listen to what they have to say and let them know that you are there to help if needed.
-Be happy yourself. You're saying, I know how to be happy - follow me! It can fade their sadness, getting in touch with their desire to enjoy themselves instead of shedding tears.
-Do something that encourages sweating. Football, soccer, basketball, a jog with you two together, dancing, bowling, cleaning up the garage, etc.
-Give your friend a hug! Tell them how you feel about them.
-Take him/her to see animals, especially when he/she loves them!
-Do something that is familiar and entertains him/her.
-Let them know that you're comfortable with them around - say "Vera! I love you!", "I missed you!", "I love being around you!", "It's so nice to be here with you", etc. The other person would appreciate knowing that they're appreciated! Say anything sweet you truly mean, but have always kept on the inside. It'll make them smile physically and mentally, knowing that it came from the bottom of your heart.

hmmm... hope this helps... by the way.. no matter what you do.. do it with a smile.. have patience and a few kind words.. =)